I have heard from my female friends about how women cheat. However, recently I came across several studies which confirmed to me that now women are also indulging in cheating, in fact they do it just as much as we do. It is estimated that at least 40 percent of women, are tangoing intimately with other people. Unfortunately, we hardly come across the real reason as to why women cheat. Therefore, from my own observations I have made an attempt to gather the most valid reasons as to why females cheat on us. Of course these observations have several other guys’ input too, hence they can be considered to be moderately accurate.

Within no time, we established that women cheat because of lack of intimacy. We may think that if a woman has a house, money and children; she’s probably very happy. However, that is untrue. She needs to feel wanted and connected to us. I have seen that it’s the closeness, attention, cuddling that she’ll crave for. If she doesn’t get it, then we can safely assume that she will end up looking for intimacy somewhere else. Women are also vengeful, so if we have caused some sort of misery on them; we should expect a return too. Thus, if we have ever cheated on a woman earlier or have been caught with lies; we can expect our women to get revenge by cheating.

We also noticed that women hate being bored, to such an extent that she’ll even sacrifice her long relationships for an exciting affair. This boredom could be emotional or physical. She needs entertainment and thrill from us most of the times; and if we can’t give it, she will find or look or it elsewhere. I have also noticed that women, use cheating as an exit strategy too. Females are dominated by their emotions and do not want to hurt our feelings.

Therefore, she’ll engage in cheating to get us to break it off instead. I have also noticed that women who are lonely or suffer from low self esteem also tend to end up cheating, in order to kill her loneliness and to boost her self-esteem. Her affairs’ will keep reassuring her that she is an attractive individual and thus she’ll boost her self esteem. And lastly, she’ll indulge in affairs because her own relationship is filled with complications. We all know that women are complicated individuals and thus they tend to be repelled by situations which are stressful due to the fear of more complications.

From above, my friends and I established that the concept of dating and marriage has changed. Today, anyone will cheat to obtain inner happiness. Initially it is surprising to learn, that we all will at some point engage in such activities, but now as I see it happen to everyone around me; I have accepted it too. And according to my research, I found out that the major reason for couples breaking up today is infidelity.